I knew it was just a matter of time, someone will be bold enough to admit that having a bastard (being a babymama is better than being a wife) to say it. Thank God that day is here.
Nollywood Actress, Feyisara Hassan, who just turned 24 on Wednesday 26th April 2017 and already has produced five films of her own while featuring in so many more, disclosed in her interview with Vanguard, that being a baby mama is better than being a wife.
The Yoruba actress also talked about her journey as a teenage movie producer, and also revealed why many Yoruba actress (women in general) are becoming babymamas.
Here are excerpts from the interview;
When asked what can make her become a babymama, she said:
"What most people don’t know is that being a babymama is even better than being a wife. Frankly, I am not against any woman opting to be a babymama, in fact I believe it is good and more peaceful. Being a babymama you enjoy the father of your baby more than if he were your husband.
You can have access to him whenever and wherever you want without any family pressures or restrictions. When you are a wife, there are limitations and restrictions and there’s little room for heartaches. More women are opting to be babymamas because their lives are more peaceful and enjoyable."
You once said you don’t wear bra, can you explain why?
"Yes, I don’t wear bras because I don’t feel comfortable with it but I do wear it now because my man is not comfortable with me not wearing it. I guess it is because of my s*xy boobs."
But they are not big?
"They may not be big but they are very special. They are one of the most beautiful parts I love in my body. Medium boobs are s*xy and more attractive than the big ones. All kinds of boobs are good though but mine are more attractive and s*xy."
What’s your take on s*x generally?
"In my opinion and experience, s*x is best experienced within a committed relationship where two people have agreed to be exclusive with each other and to explore their s*xualities together. This doesn’t have to be within marriage. However, in my opinion, relationships should not exist solely to provide a means for s*x. Relationships should be a beautiful tapestry, of which s*x is one piece. And within that relationship, s*x should only exist with an incredible amount of communication.
The communication should be about when people are ready for different stages of s*x, what people like and dislike in s*x, and at the core of all this communication should be consent. Our society talks about and does consent very poorly (which is why we have such a high rate of s*xual violence)."
Why are Yoruba films so poorly subtitled?
"It depends on the editors; we have good and bad ones. Another reason is that some bad producers find it difficult to pay editors good money. So, what they got is what they paid for."
Finally, what are your biggest dreams as an actress?
"One of my biggest dreams is to become a musician. But all in all my biggest dream is to do what nobody has done in the industry.
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