Relationship Tips: 5 Must Learn Things We All Get To Understand From Breakups

5 Must Learn Things We All Get To Understand From Breakups

Relationships have been understood by many as a two-way road. Is either you are happy or you are not. But Famous Juju singer Fela Kuti said and i quote:

"Relationship na devil. If you won born, born and forget the devil called relationship". 

For some rare, lucky people, they fall in love with only one person ever. By some unlikely conspiracy of nature, they stay through the years with that one person and their relationship withstands all the tests of time, till death does them part. 

For many, however, it is most likely that before they finally find ‘the one,’ they would have been through a number of relationships that were not really what they thought they were getting into. What is your own story? Lets look at what we all get to learn whenever relationship or marriage get soared.

1. Never let people decide what is good for you and what is not. Your friends should not be the ones telling you that you need to break with your boyfriend or girlfriend. Everyone deserves to make their own choices and though your friends might be concerned for you, the ultimate decision to pull the plug on the relationship lies with you, and you alone.

2. The heart can take more pain than you know. The pain that comes from a very bad, undeserved, and unpredicted breakup is a very intense one. No one deserves such sadness, really. The truth, though, is that when such thing occurs, one might be moved into thinking that that is the end of the world, but it is not.

It might feel like the end of the world at first, but the heart always mends. Always. (Hello Beautiful)
The heart mends after a while. It might feel so unbearable at first, but with the right moves, you’ll be fine in the end.

3. You will learn that it is better to let go than to keep forcing an affair with someone who is clearly not right for you. Many get to learn this the hard way.

4. You will learn that most people don’t deserve a second chance. There was a reason it didn't work the first time, right? Some people do not even deserve a second chance (Ann7)

5. You can’t change someone’s mind if they don’t want a relationship. The main thing is for you to learn from these mistakes as you let yourself feel the warmth of love once again.

Once bitten twice shy. 
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